Matthew coached in our Program. This was part of his application for Ivey School Of Business at University of Western. We sure hope Matthew gets accepted!!
Applicant Name: Matthew Tam
Organization:
Position: Coach/Mentor
Date From: 26/03/2015
Date To: 23/05/2015
Hours per Week: 5
Responsibilities: For as long as I can remember, I have enjoyed sports and, from a young age, I was exposed to a wide variety of them. As I reflect on my experience, I realize that I became most passionate about, and committed to, the sports for which I was inspired by coaches and role models. Their patience, encouragement, tough love and commitment, coupled with my determination, competitive spirit and desire to achieve, allowed me to excel, enjoy and feel fulfilled. It was my experience with coaches and mentors in sports that made me want to “pay it forward.” In my third year of high school I had the opportunity to do so.
In grade eleven, after playing basketball for over ten years, I was honoured when my coach selected me as one of only two players to be a coach, mentor and role model at the DeMar DeRozan Slam Dunk Book Club. He said he chose me because of my leadership, teamwork, patience and willingness to listen. The Club was established for underprivileged children in senior kindergarten to grade six to improve literacy skills and to teach teamwork through basketball. Our mission was, “Read to play. Play to grow. Grow to win.” As a program leader I committed to mentor 25 children each Saturday for three months. My overarching goal throughout the program was to inspire confidence and excitement about reading and teamwork.
On the first Saturday I realized I had some tough work ahead of me. Many of the children were uncooperative, distracted and unruly. Another challenge was creating a program that would appeal to five and twelve year olds that could be in the same group. With very little direction about how to structure and run the sessions, this allowed me to take initiative to help create a unique and meaningful program. Together with the other coaches, we developed a plan to leverage our varied skill sets, experience and leadership traits to design the weekly activities. I suggested empowering the older children by having them lead some activities and act as role models to the younger ones. This proved very successful for both the younger and older kids!
We were thrilled to see the children make progress each week. The highlight for them was meeting DeMar DeRozan and hearing him speak about the importance of literacy and following your dreams.
One highlight of my experience was working with, and making an impact on, a boy with Asperger’s Syndrome. With my support and encouragement, he moved from being introverted and lacking confidence, to feeling a sense of belonging as a contributor to the team. Another highlight was the feeling of personal accomplishment having overcome a variety of challenges, turning them into opportunities to help the children grow. It was very rewarding to pay forward what was provided to me in my early years by coaches and mentors and I know that there will be many more such opportunities in the future.